LGBTQ+ Wedding Planning Tips

When it comes to love, there’s no one-size-fits-all. We are here for our LGBTQ+ couples planning a wedding that is unique to their love story. We are here to celebrate and capture the love between two people who love each other.

Here are our top tips whether you’re at the beginning stages of planning or just looking for inspiration, we’re here to support you with inclusive advice on feeling comfortable for photos, how to pick your venue, and specific wedding day tips!

How we make LGBTQ+ Couples feel comfortable for photos

One of the most common concerns LGBTQ+ couples share before a photoshoot is whether posing will feel awkward or too “traditional.” Our answer? It won’t, because we don’t believe in cookie-cutter poses based on gender roles.

Instead, we focus on your connection. We encourage couples to laugh, cuddle, dance, or simply hold hands and take in the moment together.

Our goal is to capture your relationship as it is: genuine, joyful, and full of love. Whether you’re both wearing suits, dresses, or something completely different, we guide you with gentle direction that helps you feel confident and seen as you.

Some of our favorite moments have come from spontaneous hugs, quiet forehead touches, or playful twirls, because those little gestures tell your story far more honestly than any traditional pose ever could.

How to decide who walks down the aisle

One of the beautiful parts of planning a wedding is that you choose the rules and that includes the walk down the aisle.

You might ask, “Who should walk first?” And our answer is simple: whoever wants to, or better yet, both of you. There’s no reason you can’t:

• Walk down the aisle together, hand in hand.
• Have two aisles and meet in the middle.
• Each have your own moment walking down the aisle
• Do a private first look before the ceremony and enter side-by-side.

Make this moment your own. It’s a powerful symbol of your partnership, and how you begin your ceremony should reflect your story, not tradition.

Tips for planning a LGBTQ wedding that feels like you

Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, but planning one that truly reflects you as an LGBTQ couple comes with its own considerations.

Choose inclusive vendors. Work with people who are are actively affirming and celebratory. You’ll feel the difference. Pssst. Looking for an LGBTQ+ friendly photographer? We got you!

Wear what makes you feel amazing. Whether that’s a dress, a tux, both, or something totally unique, your style should celebrate who you are, not what tradition says you should wear.

Create a ceremony that fits you! Write your own vows. Include meaningful rituals. Skip the parts that don’t resonate. Your ceremony should tell your love story.

Have fun with your wedding party. Choose the people who matter to you or don’t have a wedding party at all! No need to focus on traditional “bridesmaids” & “groomsman.” All that matters is you surround yourself with the people who support you and bring you joy.

The most important thing to remember? This day is yours to celebrate it in a way that feels true to you both!

Your wedding isn’t about fitting into a mold, it’s about celebrating your unique love.

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